Bit of a rant but i’m so sick to death of people telling me to ‘work on myself’ and ‘enjoy being single’ when I tell people i’m not in a relationship. I’ve been single for 3 years, and I do actually enjoy being single. I’ve travelled so much, buried myself in work and study, learned more about myself, made so many new friends. Doesn’t mean it wouldn’t be NICE to experience life with someone else. God forbid I want to have a romantic connection with someone, we’re human. 90% of the time the people saying this to me are in a relationship and act like I revolve my life around finding a partner